Post Valentine Syndrome! talking about CyberSex, Adult BBM sex to Instant Sexting...

Happy belated Valentine's Day to all our readers and here is hoping you had a wonderful time and were showered with lovely gifts from the love of your life. I'm thinking Red roses, Chocolates or perhaps Diamonds!. Or a ring on the finger!. Valentines Day the LOVERS DAY!

Today we are talking about SEX, SEX SEX most especially the new generation Interpretation of what Sex is.  As a Christian and a mother I am worried about what life will be in 50 years time, for the next generation coming up. Only last week  A woman looking through her boyfriend’s phone was shocked when she found a clip of him having sex with her Staffordshire bull terrier. How anyone can sleep with this mean dog is beyond me!

Then there is Cybersex or the internet sex simply put  is a virtual sex encounter in which two or more people connected remotely via computer network send each other sexually explicit messages describing a sexual experience. In one form, this fantasy sex is accomplished by the participants describing their actions and responding to their chat partners in a mostly written form designed to stimulate their own sexual feelings and fantasies or even beyond by taking graphic pictures of their nudities, private parts.

One step ahead is the Sexcams, where people perform sexual acts to someone elses pleasure all in the luxury of their homes. Recently a documentary showed young kids as young as 12 or 13 used as sex slaves, disvirgined on line and performing sexual acts right in their home overseen by their parents and used as a source of income for the family.

So many marriages have been destroyed by BBM Sex, married men and women exchanging graphic pictures in uncompromising positions. Even pastors have been found to involved in this illicit practises.

So much that young kids have through the internet been introduced to sex, porn from as young as 8 years old!.

The no premarital sex in Churches have become something of the past, more arcade. Nigeria according to Durex world sex stats has Nigerian women as the most promiscuous in the world when it comes to extra marital affairs.

I remembered when I was growing up the nearest we got to sex was imagining it through our mills and boons books!.

Already Nigeria is the 2nd largest country with HIV patients in Africa. The use of condom is still unfashionable among many.

Sex has now become an easy pleasurable thing no longer a sacrilegious preserved unity between 2 people and in the middle east where virginity is mandatory to marriage, the doctors have provided a way out offering a plastic surgical procedure which offers disvirgined ladies to have their 'hymen' sewn back a procedure called 'hymen restoration'!. Patching some of the vaginal tissues to replicate a hymen.

All I can say God help us all!

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